Understanding your Wings
Today we are discussing how to understand the wings. You will usually pull from one wing more than the other. You pick the wing that you see more traits in yourself. There are times that the wings are balanced which is when you pull from characteristics of the wings on each side of your dominant number but those are rare.
Your dominant number will never change, that's the one that stays with you forever. Your
fear, desire, and drive comes from your dominant number. Your wing numbers can change.
Your wings are directly next to your type. If you are a type 2 you would have wing 1 or wing 3. Your wings can not be 6 if you’re a type 2.
Type 1, wing 9: Idealist
Type 1, wing 2: Advocate
Type 2, wing 1: Servant
Type 2, wing 3: Host or hostess
Type 3 wing 2: Star
Type 3 wing 4: Professional
Type 4 wing 3: Aristocrat
Type 4 wing 5: Bohemian
Type 5 wing 4: Iconist
Type 5 wing 6: Problem solver
Type 6 wing 5: Defender
Type 6 wing 7: Buddy
Type 7 wing 6: Entertainer
Type 7 wing 8: Realistic
Type 8, wing 7: Maverick
Type 8 wing 9: Bear
Type 9, wing 8: Dreamer
Type 9, wing 1: Idealist
You’ll see how some can work against each other. They can be opposite or opposing. Wings are adding more spice to whoever you are, people with the same dominant numbers can have different wings. It’s also known that people with the same number can be different because there’s so much depth to the enneagrams. Always remember that all of the types are amazing people and there are no bad or good types.
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